Nigeria A case has come to light from Ayo state which will surprise everyone. This story is about the pain and struggle that a man faced due to disputes with his wife. The bond of marriage which people consider to be a symbol of trust, love and support can in some cases also become a cause of debilitation and stress for a person. An example of this was recently seen in Ibadan city of Nigeria, where the husband, fed up with the atrocities and threats made by his wife, filed a divorce petition in the court.
Husband’s story – experience of pain, fear and harassment
Karim Yekini, who shared his harrowing story at the Mapo Grade A Customary Court, said his wife, Opemi, had made his life hell to the extent that he was afraid to return home. The husband told the court that his wife not only tortured him mentally but also beat him physically. The process of threatening and blackmailing them continued day and night. Yekini said in the court, “My wife made me do magic and ruined my life completely.”
Creepy acts of wife
Referring to an incident, Yekini said, “One day my wife locked me in a room, due to which I could not go about my daily work. “He also snatched away my car keys and set Amotekun Corps against me.” Yekini also told that even his neighbors and family members did not come to his help as they were afraid of his wife.
Wife’s confession – stir in court
When wife Opeyemi was called to present her case in court, she stood up boldly and did not deny any of the allegations. She told the court, “I have no regrets that I fight with my husband. I tried to pacify him many times before, but he did not listen to me.” However, he also pleaded with the court that if the divorce takes place, he should be given the custody of his only child.
Court decision and outcome
The court listened carefully to both sides and took a decision. The court said that the marriage between the two was not duly solemnized, hence it was considered illegal. As a result, custody of the child was awarded to the wife and the husband was ordered to pay a monthly allowance of 10,000 Naira. This case not only reflects the difficulties of a husband-wife relationship, but also highlights the serious issue of domestic violence and mental harassment.
Domestic violence – a serious social problem
This incident is not only a story of a person’s personal struggle but also brings to the fore an important social issue. Domestic violence, whether physical or mental, has become a deep-rooted problem within society. Many times its victim becomes a person who, due to some reason, is unable to raise his voice. Such incidents remind us that both men and women should get equal rights and protection in our society.
More such cases in Nigeria
Such cases keep coming up not only in Nigeria but all over the world. According to various reports and surveys, cases of domestic violence are increasing and many organizations are working to solve this problem. Recently, many NGOs and government organizations have launched awareness campaigns to stop this, so that people can get information about their right to safety.
At the end
Karim Yekini’s case is not only about his personal experience, but it is also a warning to those in society who are facing domestic violence. To solve such cases, it is necessary that both society and law play their roles. This incident helps us understand how important love, respect and trust are in any relationship, and if any of these elements go missing, tensions and problems can increase in relationships.
Society’s awareness and a new direction
This incident also teaches us that there is a need to make the society aware so that victims can get help and support in cases of domestic violence. People can come out of such situations only by following the legal provisions properly and being aware of their rights.
